Valentine Interview 1999
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Nick / WebSite • • [Ghandi] Warzone
• [Aristotle] Jediknight.net • [Ivy Girl] Ivy's World
• [BrianK] Psygnosis • [Killcreek] Ion Storm
• [CliffyB] Unreal.com • [Knife] Gigadeth Productions
• [DarkViper] ActionXtreme • [Lambadomy] Quake Super Heroes
• [Lockup] Beta Bites • [Wanker] PlanetWank
• [Redwood] 3d Gaming • [Wemmick] Gamers Extreme
• [TheShadow] SA Gaming • [Wicked] Voodoo Extreme

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Interview

[Cali]: If you had a lot of money just for an entertainment trip, where would you take your Valentine to?

[Aristotle]: If I had a sack of gold to toss over my shoulder for a cozy little Valentine's trip, I would likely head on over to Europe, specifically towards the French Riviera. A few years ago in college I had the opportunity to travel throughout Europe and that's a spot that sticks in my mind as being quite romantic. You'll find fascinating little ancient villages all along that coast and wonderful little Inns where you can enjoy plenty of wining and dining. On the way back to the states, I'd suggest a stop in Switzerland. Nothing beats nestling up next to a roaring fire from within a Swiss chalet hidden deep atop the Mountains.

[BrianK]: Florence, Italy. A nice warm city, with lots of young folks hanging around (or zipping by on Vespas.)  Great public art, and incredible museums.  And a wonderful old fort up on the hillside for hiking up to watch the sunset from. And gelato.

[CliffyB]: I'd love to go diving somewhere in the Keys with my Fiancιe'... she's certified to dive and I'm not, but we were able to go in Hawaii a few years ago and it was just about the most amazing thing I've ever done. If you haven't done it, go!

[Darkviper]: If I was married, for a cruise line. With a girlfriend, probably to a good movie (not action packed).

[Ghandi]: Defiantly Paris. Saw it a couple weeks ago and it is truly a beautiful city.

[Knife]:  I'd have to say some secluded chateau along the Mediterranean, maybe southern France.  I've always wanted to travel to Europe and what area could possibly be more romantic?  Plus there would be so much culture and history to the place, as opposed to a some commercialized resort beach.

[Lambadomy]: Las Vegas man.  My Valentine loves the place, but we can't afford to see cirque du soleil there cause it's approximately one million dollars a ticket.  Plus where else can you collect strip club advertisements while drinking and gambling?  It's the perfect place.

[Redwood]: I would take her to the Caribbean so she could get out of the miserable cold and have fun in the warm sun.  I know she would enjoy that and so would I.

[TheShadow]: Victoria Falls, Zimbabwe.

[Wanker]: One of 2 places.  Greece or Ireland.  Greece because it's the most romantic place on earth, and Ireland because staying in one of the castles and horse back riding in the mornings would be awesome.  =)

[Wemmick]: The Greek Islands.  I hear they're very beautiful, and I think it's warmer there than it is here.

[Wicked]:  Probably Casper, Wyoming. Everyone knows that Casper is like the hippest place around!  No, seriously, I'd LOVE to get away to some relatively secluded island in the Bahamas.  I say relatively as I think being totally secluded would suck, as I'm really accident prone, and, after stepping on a Jelly fish or something, would need medical assistance.

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[Cali]: If a guy you really cared about had a lot of money to spend on you on an entertainment trip, where would you want him to take you?

[Ivy Girl]: I would want to go on a cruise somewhere tropical. but..... I am a firm believer in that its about the little things you do and not money.

[Killcreek]: There are so many places I want to go!! I've never been out of the country, so I would most likely want to go somewhere far away. I would love to go to a beach somewhere .. like Cancun. However, I think my current top choice would be to go on a tour of castles all over Europe. Even though it would be nice to be taken care of financially, I'm sure I would do my best to pay my half whenever possible. I am fiercely independent, and I just don't feel right having people buy things for me.

[Lockup]: Away from the chaos! I would prefer a remote tropical island where there is only peace and tranquility, lots of heat, good food, and a beautiful sunset every night. Maybe a fishing pole. :)

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[Cali]: On your trip, would you take your computer and/or games with you?

[Aristotle]: LOL! Not a chance! The last thing I would have on my mind on such a trip would be the network. Don't get me wrong... the network is obviously very important... but we have a top-notch staff (including Cali the wonder girl) heading up our news division, so things would no doubt be left in good hands. I wouldn't need a computer for the type of "games" I'd be enjoying with my Valentine. =)

[BrianK]: Uhhh...maybe a GameBoy- just for the airplane! :-)  But, something you could link together might work even better.  A pair of Dreamcast VMS controllers?

[CliffyB]: Hell no. Darcy would have my salty chocolate balls for a snack.

[Darkviper]: No! Of course not! They have arcades at theatres you know. :) (J/K)

[Ghandi]: Absolutely not.

[Ivy Girl]: No, I would maybe bring the laptop depending how long we would be gone for just to check my mail but no games because this would be a time for us to be together and to enjoy each other.

[Killcreek]: Absolutely. I'm a hardcore gamer, so I would need to bring whatever I was playing at the time. I would probably end up lugging along a color gameboy, a small TV, an N64, and a laptop with tons of games.

[Knife]:  I can't imagine traveling anywhere without at least a laptop for email and web access.  But that's all.  Games would be out of the question.  No time for that while we're hitting the beaches.

[Lambadomy]: Heck no. I have enough trouble getting away with using my computer when she's in the room, much less when we're on a trip.  I value my life.

[Lockup]: If I did, the chaos would only continue...

[Redwood]: No way, I can live without my computer for a while. It might be tougher to convince her to leave the computer, but she'd probably leave it as well. :)

[TheShadow]: Just this once, because of the nature of the occasion and the need for focus on someone else, no. Sob, no not one, sniff. lol.

[Wanker]: Probably not, unless my Valentine wanted too.  But, more than likely we'd be too busy kissing and site seeing to play video games.

[Wemmick]: Nope.

[Wicked]: I think my wife would castrate me (with that same Jelly fish, that I just mentioned; I'm not sure how, but she would find a way) if I even mentioned a computer on the trip.

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[Cali]: For all of the readers who don't have a girlfriend or boyfriend, what kind of advice would you have for them on finding the right one?

[Aristotle]: Hmm.. tough question. On the serious side, don't ever rush into things or fall into long relationships at a young age. Live... experience a variety of people since you really don't know what the world has to offer unless you browse the catalogue. That doesn't mean sleep around... it means date until you know what it is you're really truly looking for. As hard as it is, try to avoid the "I wish I had lived life" pot-hole which I occasionally hear from some of my older friends.

On a lighter side... for those singles out there looking for a quick fix... head on down to the local tavern, pull a chair up to the bar, and keep asking for shots of "red death"... and keep them coming. After an hour or two... just about any woman in the bar will likely look attractive...  and you should have increased your odds as well as your selection.

[BrianK]: Well, what has always worked best for me, is forgetting that you're looking, and just have fun.  Not always an easy thing to accomplish.  (Hmm, and maybe why I'm single now.)

[CliffyB]: Stay out of the gaming business! Heh, seriously, I wouldn't be with Darcy right now if she hadn't come up to me one day and given me her phone number. Guess I had my groove on that day.

[Darkviper]: Well, I'd love to give them advice, but I don't have a girlfriend. My best advise is to not rush into anything, especially if it isn't going to last for more than a few months because you "rushed" into it. It's like driving 75 miles per hour in the fog, and you don't know what's ahead because you went too fast.., get to know the person as a friend before hand.. this will save you from having a lot of problems.

[Ghandi]: Well for me it was never a matter of finding the right one. I think we all know who we want to be with. It's just a matter of letting that someone know. If you like him/her let em know. You'll never get what you want if you don't.

[Ivy Girl]: My friend Greblaja told me if you want to find someone to not look for them if that makes sense. He said that when he is looking for something he never seems to find it but when he focuses on something else it always surfaces and he told me the same can be with finding a boyfriend.

[Killcreek]: Well, I am probably the wrong person to ask.. because I don't have one right now either. ;) What I would recommend is not to settle. Never settle for less than what you want, or you will end up unhappy! Keep an open mind, and treat your significant other with respect. Most of all, be honest about your wants and needs. I truly believe that the right one will come along when the time is right, if you are just patient. :)

[Knife]: Make friends, at work, at school, whatever - get to know people and be well liked.  This means being yourself and being respected.  If you're well liked among your friends, co-workers, etc., other people, (i.e. women) will notice you. Ok, I sound like a guidance counselor here, sorry, but it's all I could think of.

[Lambadomy]: Shower.  Shave.  Buy new clothes.  Use deodorant.  I know this all seems pretty rudimentary, but I have met your readers, and they need to do this before they can even think of taking further steps.  Or they can learn to settle for a significant other just as dirty, stinky, unkempt and unshaven as them.

Helpful hint: Once you have them, you can revert back to your old ways!

[Lockup]: Stop looking and let it happen. Never assume you can change someone.

[Redwood]: I wouldn't go looking for them in bars or sex chat rooms on the internet. Occasionally I'm sure people find winners that way but not often.  Also, don't settle for somebody that is just "okay" or treats you badly for a while just to be in a relationship.  Life is too short to do that and I think most people deserve better.

[TheShadow]: Classified Ads. Joking, lol. I would suggest simply paying attention to those you are interested in, and being more interested in learning about them than blowing your own horn. Outgoing concern and friendship never harmed.

[Wanker]: Well, I fall into that category.  (d'oh)  So I'd be giving myself advice, and look how far that's gotten me.  *laugh*

[Wemmick]: Do I still get to answer this question if I'm single?  :) From my experience, just be very honest with yourself about what you are looking for.  If you think you're in it on a whim, get out.  If you think they are in it on a whim, get out.  Always try to move slowly in the beginning - it'll pay off later.  Qualities that bug you initially are likely to bug you even more a year down the road.

[Wicked]: Get the hell out of the house. They really shouldn't even be reading this.  You can use my brother, Sweet Dick Willy (don't let the name fool ya), as the type of person that people will meet on the net.  He's a classic example of why you shouldn't hook up with people that you meet on the net!

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[Cali]: What type of personality and looks are you looking for in someone?

[Aristotle]: Gotta love a classy woman. Class is key.  I don't have a certain "look" I go for... There's either chemistry or there's not. Personality wise... she's got be spontaneous, funny, love to travel.. and love to live life in general. (No female lawyers... mixing lawyers together is like trying to mix oil with water)

[BrianK]: Someone fun, social, who can hold their own at a party.  Someone self confident enough to know what they want.  Brunettes from California beach towns (oops :-)

[CliffyB]: I am always looking for understanding of my priorities with my career.

[Darkviper]: Hmm, that's a good question. I never quite thought of that, well someone who isn't stuck on herself, someone who will accept me as I am and not always be complaining about this or that. Someone who likes to play computer or video games! I especially hate it when I see a girl start saying that older guys shouldn't be still playing video games.. (I'd like to see a girl say that to John Carmack). I can go on and on but rather not >:) For looks.., petite, not too tall, not too short.., (this reminds me of something you'd see in a newspaper btw), color of hair, doesn't matter, color of eyes.. doesn't matter, it's really what's in the heart, because all of this will age in time (unless they're immortal, in any cases is impossible), but it's an awesome bonus. :)

[Ghandi]: Anyone with a great sense of humor.

[Ivy Girl]: I want a guy who is very masculine but isn't afraid to show his sensitive side. A man that can look into my eyes and know what I am thinking. A man that will hold me in his arms and tell me everything is gonna be alright and not harp on what I am upset about till I am ready to share.. I like a guy who has a great sense of humor and who also knows how to romance a female. I love arms... But I think eyes are very important. Considering I want to look into them and get lost in them forever.

[Killcreek]: I look for a variety of characteristics in guys, there really is no certain type I go for. My list of required attributes would absolutely include intelligence, a great sense of humor, and self-confidence. I like a guy who is very open-minded, confident, a risk taker, and most of all fun. :) I also admire loyalty, a sense of purpose, and a strong work ethic. Most of all I want to be with someone who enjoys every bit of life, despite their current situation. A guy who can make every day fun, even through the tough times, is worth keeping! :)

[Knife]: Without sounding too cliche, someone who is intelligent and outgoing. The perfect woman would be creative and have strong interests, such as art, music, computer programming. And most importantly, a great sense of humor.  Looks?  I'm a sucker for tall brunettes.

[Lockup]: Well, if I was looking, okay, maybe it is time I started looking, nah! Actually, I could careless about the looks and more about the individual themselves. There is no question you have to be attracted to each other, but attraction goes much deeper than looks, at least for me. Personality: open, honest, intelligent, a sense-of-humor and playfulness, the ability to listen and communicate, and to put their male ego on hold when needed. :)

[TheShadow]: Friendly, humorous, selfless, creative in relationships.

[Wanker]:  Personality wise, I'm looking for a romantic, intelligent, artistic, down to earth girl - so far as looks goes, being in shape is a plus but that's about it.  =)  (attractive is a given)

[Wemmick]: Yikes... that's a lot of question right there.  Briefly: Sense of humor, self-confidence, independence, drive, and sense of humor.  As far as looks go... well I try not to be too picky, but I'm a sucker for a nice pair of blue eyes.

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